About us
For adults in their forties and above, modern dating can feel confusing, overwhelming, or just plain exhausting. The Dating For Love meetup is designed to make it easier and a lot more fun. Through practical skills, real conversations, and supportive community, you’ll learn how to date with clarity, confidence, and heart.
We offer events for women, men, and co-ed groups, each designed to help you connect more authentically and build healthy, meaningful relationships. Whether you’re hoping to meet your modern-day king or queen, or simply want to become a stronger, more intentional dater, here you’ll find guidance and community.
Upcoming events
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Mindful Mini Dates: An Evening Of Stories and Surprises
81 Weaverville Road, 81 Weaverville Rd, Asheville, NC 28804, USA, Asheville, NC, USMindful Mini Dates: An Evening of Stories and Surprises
For Singles Ages 35 to 50Please do not use the RSVP link. Registration is required.
Please read until the end, as there are separate registration links for men and women. Be sure to click the link that corresponds to your gender.Presented by Dating For Love: Mindful, Modern Relationships
With Dr. Deb Barnett, matchmaker and clinical psychologist.Ready for a singles event that's actually fun?
Join us for a playful evening designed to take the awkwardness out of meeting someone new. Through a series of relaxed mini dates, you'll use unexpected objects and the stories they inspire to spark conversations that are interesting, personal, and sometimes delightfully surprising.
No boring small talk. No pressure to impress. Just interesting people, great stories, plenty of laughter, and the possibility of an unexpected connection.
Monday, October 19th
6:00 PM–8:00 PM
Sanctuary Studio - North Asheville
$25 per personLight refreshments will be served.
Pre-registration is required and spaces are limited. Please register using the appropriate gender-specific link below so we can have an equal number of men and women in attendance.Men register here:
https://men.drdebbarnett.com/home
Women register here:
https://women.drdebbarnett.com/homeCome have fun, share some stories, and you just might connect with someone interesting!
Hosted by Dr. Deb Barnett, matchmaker and clinical psychologist. You can find out more about Deb here Dr Deb Barnett – The Dating Expert6 attendees
Mindful Mini Dates: An Evening of Stories and Surprises
North Asheville, North Asheville, Asheville, NC 28804, USA, Asheville, NC, USMindful Mini Dates: An Evening of Stories and Surprises
A Special Singles Evening for Ages 50–65Meet someone new, one story at a time!
Looking for a more meaningful and enjoyable way to meet other singles? Join us for an evening of creativity, conversation, and unexpected discoveries!Hosted by Dr. Deb Barnett, matchmaker and clinical psychologist, this unique dating experience offers a refreshing alternative to traditional singles events.
Instead of relying on the usual introductions and small talk, you'll bring an everyday object and share the story behind it. These simple prompts can reveal personality, spark laughter, and help you discover what you might have in common with someone new.
Come as you are, enjoy the conversations, and see where a little curiosity might lead. You never know when an ordinary story could become the beginning of an extraordinary connection!
📅 Tuesday, December 8, 2026
🕕 6:00 PM–8:00 PM
📍 North Asheville
🎟️ $25 per person
☕ Light refreshments will be provided.Registration is required, and space is limited.
To help us maintain a balanced number of men and women, please register using the appropriate link below. Please do not use the RSVP button.
Men's Registration:
https://men.drdebbarnett.com/homeWomen's Registration:
https://women.drdebbarnett.com/homeCome ready to share, laugh, listen, and meet interesting people in a relaxed, welcoming setting. Your next meaningful connection might begin with a story you never expected to tell!
Hosted by Dr. Deb Barnett, matchmaker and clinical psychologist.
Learn more about Dr. Deb:
www.drdebbarnett.com9 attendees
Past events
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