About us
Who we are: We are a fun, inclusive group, rediscovering who we are as middle-aged adults (40 and up), getting out of the house and challenging ourselves to make friends and try new activities. Regardless of your relationship status, you are welcome to come and find connection and friendship with others. This group is for those who find themselves at a crossroads in life—kids moving out of the nest, loss of spouse, or any other reason that leads you to want to find new connections and get outside your comfort zone. We will plan a variety of fun social activities but would also like to focus on giving back to our community with volunteer activities. If you have ideas for activities or volunteer opportunities, please message the group leader or an event organizer.
Who should join: Middle-aged adults (40+) who do not have kids or whose kids are now (mostly) independent AND adults with or without a partner who are looking to extend their social circle and participate in fun, in-person activities with other adults. We expect everyone to treat all group members with respect and compassion, refraining from judgmental comments or discussions (no political, religious, philosophical, etc. debates—there are other local meetup groups for them).
Activity Disclaimer: Please note that this group is focused for those who are middle-aged adults. Please don't expect our activities to accommodate anyone under age 21 (though we may occasionally have such events).
Additional information: we ask that you please have a meetup profile picture that is clear on your face so we know who to be looking for when you join us at events. Thank you! Usually events will be open to RSVP until the event time and for an unlimited number. Occasionally, we will limit number of attendees or close RSVPs early based on event details (need for reservations, location limit, etc.) We ask that you RSVP for anything that interests you — and even bring guests if you would like — but that you please change your RSVP status if you are unable to attend. We also ask that everyone follow any specific guidelines a group leader sets forth in the description of each event (e.g. guest limit, if a certain event is or is not dog or younger child appropriate, etc.) Habitual RSVPers who no-show and anyone not following respectful guidelines outlined here or by group leaders may be removed from the group at leadership discretion.
Art credit: The group cover art is an original watercolor made specifically for this group by JBParsons.
Upcoming events
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Bunco - Sip and Roll @ Starbucks
Starbucks at Martin & Kingham (Lacey), 1020 Kingham St NE, Lacey, WA, USArrive by 5:30, game play starts at 6 p.m.
You're invited to a Bunco dice game! Grab your favorite seasonal drink and join us for a casual game night full of luck, prizes, and good company. No bunco experience is necessary—it's easy to learn, and the partners change every round!🕕 GAME PLAY STARTS @ 6 p.m.
- Arrive by 5:30 to sign-in and place your Starbucks order
- Game play starts at 6 p.m.
- Game ends at 7:30 p.m. even if we're in the middle of a game
- This Starbucks location closes at 8 p.m. and has asked that we start wrapping up by 7:30 p.m.
📍Location Starbucks · 1020 Kingham St NE · Lacey
Near WINCO and Wendy's on Martin Way east.🔮 Who: Join the fun, and bring your friends!
📅 Date: Third Friday each month
🕕 Time: 6:00 p.m. start (arrive early to sign-in & order)
📋Sign-in: Starting March 2026 game play will be limited only to players signed up via the Empty Nesters Meet Up group.
🎉 What: Win Prizes! Have Fun! More prizes!
🎁 Prizes: If you'd like to donate, wrapped gifts are welcomed for the prize pile!
💸No cover charge or admission - but must be a paying customer to hang out at Starbucks.
🍽️ Starbucks favorites - the full menu is available. Hot and cold beverages, breakfast and lunch sandwiches, and a variety of snacks.
❤️ The app has been set to allow you to bring 1 guest for this event.
16 attendees
Brad Upton Comedy Show - Lacey
Ricardo's, 5211 Lacey Boulevard Southeast, Lacey, WA, USComedy veteran Brad Upton is just getting started. The former fourth grade teacher and part time track coach is seeing a resurgence unlike anyone else. His 2019 Dry Bar comedy special, "Boomer Triggers Gen-Z Snowflakes" with 16.1 millions views on YouTube, is the 2nd most viewed comedy special on the planet.
Date: Saturday, May 16
Time: 6:30 p.m. start
(doors open 1 hour before start)Tickets/Cost:
$28 general admission
SOLD OUT - $40 VIP reservedVenue: Ricardo's · 5211 Lacey Boulevard Southeast · Lacey
FOOD: Ricardo's will have a snack food and adult beverages available for purchase. If you would like to have dinner please make reservations with Ricardo's for dinning before the show at 4:30pm or earlier (360) 413-9995 let them know you are attending comedy.
Parking: Free
❤️ The app has been set to allow you to bring 5 guests for this event.
**CONTENT ADVISORY: Contains comic depictions of violence, mild innuendo, bawdy language, and the occasional rude word.**
8 attendees
Past events
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