About us
Who we are: We are a fun, inclusive group, rediscovering who we are as middle-aged adults (40 and up), getting out of the house and challenging ourselves to make friends and try new activities. Regardless of your relationship status, you are welcome to come and find connection and friendship with others. This group is for those who find themselves at a crossroads in life—kids moving out of the nest, loss of spouse, or any other reason that leads you to want to find new connections and get outside your comfort zone. We will plan a variety of fun social activities but would also like to focus on giving back to our community with volunteer activities. If you have ideas for activities or volunteer opportunities, please message the group leader or an event organizer.
Who should join: Middle-aged adults (40+) who do not have kids or whose kids are now (mostly) independent AND adults with or without a partner who are looking to extend their social circle and participate in fun, in-person activities with other adults. We expect everyone to treat all group members with respect and compassion, refraining from judgmental comments or discussions (no political, religious, philosophical, etc. debates—there are other local meetup groups for them).
Activity Disclaimer: Please note that this group is focused for those who are middle-aged adults. Please don't expect our activities to accommodate anyone under age 21 (though we may occasionally have such events).
Additional information: we ask that you please have a meetup profile picture that is clear on your face so we know who to be looking for when you join us at events. Thank you! Usually events will be open to RSVP until the event time and for an unlimited number. Occasionally, we will limit number of attendees or close RSVPs early based on event details (need for reservations, location limit, etc.) We ask that you RSVP for anything that interests you — and even bring guests if you would like — but that you please change your RSVP status if you are unable to attend. We also ask that everyone follow any specific guidelines a group leader sets forth in the description of each event (e.g. guest limit, if a certain event is or is not dog or younger child appropriate, etc.) Habitual RSVPers who no-show and anyone not following respectful guidelines outlined here or by group leaders may be removed from the group at leadership discretion.
Art credit: The group cover art is an original watercolor made specifically for this group by JBParsons.
Upcoming events
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Vacation Bottle School Wine Tasting—Talk Like a Pirate Day Edition
The Nocturnal Hound Wine Bar & Bottle Shop, 324 Custer Way SW, Tumwater, WA, USNot only is this wine bar quaint, and relaxing, but they offer some scrumptious menu items as well. So please come join us for some delicious wine tasting (not required—NA options available), great conversation, and a relaxing way to end your weekend.
BOnUS for all me advent lads and lasses:
The day before this event is “Talk Like a Pirate Day” but since we already had other events planned that evening we will use this as a “makeup” day to celebrate piratey things.
🏴☠️🌊 Wear a pirate/sea/booty (minds out of the gutter, I mean treasure) item, or just come with a few pirate phrases to throw out in conversationThe cost for the winetasting is typically $15-20 per person depending on featured winery/theme. You can find more information and see their fabulous food menu here:
https://thenocturnalhound.com/We need to give a FIRM headcount to the venue on Friday, 18 September so RSVPs will close that day—PLEASE if your plans change, make the change prior to 3:30 that afternoon.
7 attendees
BANGO® - Music Bingo at Lacey EP
Emperor's Palace Lacey, 7321 Martin Way E., OLYMPIA, WA, USTheme: Back to School with the 80's, It's a dance party - glow stick - karaoke - sing along - friendly competition all in one! Join us for "BANGO" Music Bingo Night.
🕕 Time: 6 p.m. arrive / 6:30 p.m. start
* If you can, please arrive early & help save tables - our normal back table is not available in Sept - we will likely not be able to sit at one table *🔮 Free to play for customers at this 21 plus event hosted in the bar.
📅 Date: Thursday
📍 Location: Emperor's Palace Lacey
🎁 Prizes to win including a $40 Gift Certificate for Blackout!!
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https://www.facebook.com/groups/554601282248124❤️ The app has been set to allow you to bring 1 guest for this event.
15 attendees
DOLLY DAY - FREE Screening of 9 to 5!
Washington Center for the Performing Arts in downtown Olympia., 512 Washington St SE, Olympia, WA, USTumble outta bed, stumble to the movies, and join us for the 1980 comedy 9 to 5! Channel your inner Dolly – big wigs, rhinestones, short skirts and gravity-defying curves – plus, in honor Dolly by bringing a new or gently used children’s book to donate.
Tickets/Cost: This event is FREE and open to the public. Tickets are not required for entry.
Date: Friday, September 25
Time: 7:00 p.m. start /doors open 1 hour before
Group Photo: we'll gather in the lobby near the stairs, for a group photo @ 6:30pm
Honor Dolly: bring a new or gently used children’s book to donate!
Parking: Downtown Olympia parking is limited, plan ahead.
Venue: Washington Center Main Stage
512 Washington St. SE, Olympia,❤️ The app has been set to allow you to bring 5 guests for this event.
### About the Show
The one, the only, the legend herself, Dolly Parton, stars alongside Jane Fonda and Lily Tomlin as they show their boss exactly what happens when you push working women too far.
Pour yourself a cup of ambition and bring along a new or gently used children’s book to donate! Our friends at the South Sound Reading Foundation will be in the lobby helping us honor Dolly’s legendary love of literacy.
Channel your inner Dolly – big wigs, short skirts, and gravity-defying curves – or scour the closet for your best shoulder-padded, pencil-skirted 1980s office wear. Whether in sensible pumps, bedazzled heels, or sequined cowboy boots, strut down to the Washington Center ready to clock out of the workweek and clock in for Dolly Day. Hairspray, acrylic nails, lipstick, and absolutely unreasonable amounts of rhinestones encouraged.
Grab your friends for a night of big laughs, big hair, and even bigger fun!
7 attendees
AlphaBites 2026 (S) - South Bay Pub and Eatery
Location not specified yetRelaxed, family-run eatery pairing burgers with beer and wine, plus a full bar.
🍽️ Menu Info
📅 Date: Saturday, 9/26
🕕 Time: 4:45 p.m. (beating the dinner rush)
📍 Location/Address: 3323 Southbay Rd NE, Olympia
❤️ The app has been set to allow you to bring 1 guest for this event.
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AlphaBites 2026 isn’t just about eating out—it's about discovering hidden gems, local favorites, and exciting new venues right in our area. Our group will visit different food and drink establishments whose name starts with a different letter of the alphabet. From A to Z, no letter is left behind (well maybe Q since Quality Burrito is sadly gone)! Please let your leadership team members/event hosts know of suggestions of your favorite local spots as we wind our way through the AlphaBites
S - South Bay Pub and Eatery - 9/26
4 attendees
Past events
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