Hacker Dojo

Social anxiety is not a biological, genetic attribute. It is a set of limiting beliefs, lack of skills, and a lack of practice. It's like being afraid of the ocean because you can't swim. I struggled with social anxiety for decades, but today I talk with strangers every day and enjoy public speaking.

When my tech career started, I was a shy introvert who avoided talking with people outside my small circle. I thought being a good coder was all I really needed. Then two events catalyzed a change in my life and career.

Because of those events, I created an incremental system to reverse my social anxiety, enjoy presenting, and ultimately enjoy public speaking. And then I taught 100+ people how to replicate my results. And a few months ago I published a book on the first part of the process. In this talk, I'll share the mental models, system framework, and the two-minute "recipe" that got me started.

Hacker Dojo is heading to Open Sauce 2026, and we’re bringing the community with us.

We’re looking for Dojo members and collaborators to come together and help design and build an interactive booth that showcases what our community can create. This is a chance to contribute ideas, prototype experiences, and shape something that leaves a lasting impression on everyone who visits.
Whether you're into hardware, software, design, or storytelling, or just want to get involved, there’s a place for you in this build.

What we’ll do:

• Brainstorm and concept booth ideas
• Form teams around different components such as design, build, and experience
• Start prototyping and planning execution
• Collaborate with fellow Dojo members

Goal:
Create a booth experience that reflects the creativity, collaboration, and spirit of Hacker Dojo and shows what a community can build together.
Come be part of it.

Join us for Founder Fridays, a casual and insightful midday session designed for builders, founders, and curious minds. Lunch will be provided so you can plug into a focused conversation on startups, product thinking, and navigating the realities of building in today’s tech landscape.

Each week features a founder, operator, or industry expert sharing real experiences, practical lessons, and open Q&A. Whether you’re just getting started or scaling your next venture, this is a space to learn, connect, and exchange ideas with the community.

Come for the insights, stay for the conversations.