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The Original Circling® Approach & Authentic Relating - IN BERKELEY!

Come Join - Our new IN-PERSON Event in Berkeley! **NOTE: This page is for information only.** **Please Ignore the Meetup "Not Open" Button.** **To REGISTER, go here...** [https://buytickets.at/thecirclinginsitute](https://buytickets.at/thecirclinginsitute) Authentic Relating and the “Original Circling® Approach” Be seen, heard, "gotten" & accepted and learn to do the same NOTE: If you are interested in hosting events in your home in Marin, let us know! Do you crave: -More fulfilling relationships? -Conscious & loving community? -To feel more alive? Come play, experience & integrate practical skills to: -Create deep, intimate connections -Transform ordinary surface conversations into juicy, heart opening, enlightening explorations for personal insights & healing -Become more present & comfortable in your own skin -Uncover our “relational blind spots” where we push away the depth of connection & intimacy that’s possible -Practice listening to the essence of someone’s soul -“Get someone’s world” like a mind reader -Tap into the power of your vulnerability that has you more lovable -Be understood, appreciated & celebrated for the essence of who you are -Create more love, connection & community Join us for an evening of authentic relating, practicing profoundly unique skills like getting someone's world (deep empathy), sharing impact (honesty & vulnerability), and speaking the moment (courage, insight, shared reality, making connection more important than content). This work has been powerful and deeply nourishing for me and I'd love to share it with you. I’ve never seen a practice more adept at melting the distance between two hearts. \~ Jon Cotton What does a Circle look like, with the Original Circling Approach? A group of 4-10 people sit in a circle & put their attention primarily on one person, and, with the help of a facilitator, notice what it's like being with this person moment by moment, share impact & observations, and co-explore what that person’s experience and world is like, essentially getting into deep relationship with what is most true & alive for that person. A typical evening includes introductions, an exercise to practice authentic relating & 2 rounds of circling - each approximately 30 minutes in length. The experience of “being seen” for who we authentically are is one of the most rewarding experiences we can have as human beings, and the Original Circling Approach teaches us how to see & celebrate each person for the unique flavor they bring to the world. We don’t give advice or try to fix anyone. Rather, we welcome and stay with “what is”, so we can relax into the truth of our experience, feel supported & know we are not alone. “Circling practice is to get in a deep relationship with what is.” * Guy Sengstock, Founder of The Original Circling Approach For deeper understanding, see 6 Things the Circling Practice Does Really Well… http://www.circlinginstitute.com/what-is-original-circling-approach/ **REGISTRATION:** Advanced registration and $30 payment required (Our last event sold out a week ahead of time). Register here: [https://buytickets.at/thecirclinginsitute](https://buytickets.at/thecirclinginsitute?fbclid=IwAR3Yz93WXF0qW8MMUlr423JkMYq4udL31Y0wZdBh-pP7N__QRxZzPsG-sSg) For more information, contact us at info@circlinginstitute.com Your Facilitators: Jon Cotton, Guy Sengstock (Founder of The Circling Approach) and/or Circling Institute Facilitators (One of these facilitators and/or our well trained staff will be leading this event). Together, they are not afraid to lead with their own humanity, vulnerability and humor to keep it real. Read more about Jon & Guy here... https://www.circlinginstitute.com/about/ \-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\- The term “Circling®” is a registered trademark. The Circling Institute has a license from the International Circling Federation to use the term, in accordance with their guidelines, in relation to the training and facilitation we offer. We are also one of three schools licensed to offer Circling Certification. You can read about the unique distinctions between the three lineages, as well as the standards of service required of licensees, on [The Circling Federation website](https://internationalcirclingfederation.org/). Only practitioners who have been trained, certified & licensed will display the Circling Federation logo.

An Authentic, Trusting & Powerful Men's Circle

Many of us arrive at MDI looking for something. At this point in our lives we have had several challenges. Some that have made us better, some that have rocked the foundation of everything we know and experience in our daily lives. We have felt isolated, alone, burdened, broken even. I was unsure that anything outside of me could hold solutions, or that it was possible for me to learn new ways of being that would connect me with other men-that I could find a place where I could develop into mature masculinity to be able to not only solve some of my problems, but learn how to lead teams of men. This begs a question: How is the world better off with Mature Masculine Leadership, and what is in it for me? Here are a few answers. If your interest is peaked, consider reaching out to us, claim your future... The world is significantly better off with **Mature Masculine Leaders** because such leadership brings a balanced, grounded, and principled approach to power, responsibility, and service. Here's how this benefits society: Mature masculine leaders typically embody **emotional regulation, self-mastery, and integrity**. This creates more stable governments, organizations, and families. These leaders don’t react impulsively or let ego drive decisions—they respond with clarity, long-term thinking, and accountability. *They become anchors in chaos.* The benefit to the world is **transformational**. Mature masculine leaders don't just govern—they **mentor, stabilize, and serve**. Their presence often leads to safer societies, stronger institutions, healthier families, and more cohesive communities. When men lead from maturity, not insecurity or domination, **everyone—regardless of gender—thrives.** Mentor Discover Inspire (MDI) is an international men's organization. You can also [visit our website ](https://www.mentordiscoverinspire.org/) to find out more about us. There is a form there which can help find an MDI Team in your area. If you fill out the form we will get back to you about starting the process of joining an MDI Team.

4v4s Intermediate-Advance Beach Volleyball (Saturday @10:30am)

Bay Area Singles Relational Lab - Facilitated Connection Experience

**Tired of dating apps and conversations that go nowhere?** **What if meeting new people could actually feel good again?** When we started Conscious Connections, I interviewed hundreds of people about dating and connection. And I kept hearing the same things: *"I'm tired of swiping and having the same conversations over and over."* *"I just want to meet someone I can have a real connection with."* *"Dating feels so superficial these days."* *"I'm exhausted by dating apps. I want to meet people in real life."* Underneath all those frustrations was the same longing: to meet people we can be ourselves with. To laugh, feel at ease, have meaningful conversations, and discover where a genuine connection might lead. 𝗧𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗶𝘀 𝗱𝗶𝗳𝗳𝗲𝗿𝗲𝗻𝘁. Two hours that give you energy instead of taking it. Playful, warm, alive. People often leave surprised by how quickly strangers can feel human, honest and real again. 𝗙𝗿𝗲𝗲 𝘁𝗼 𝗥𝗦𝗩𝗣. 👉 $59 to book your place, and hear from people who've been: [https://consciousconnectionsclub.com/join](https://consciousconnectionsclub.com/join) Each booking is a place in our monthly Relational Lab. Your session date, time and Zoom link arrive by email within 24 hours. Booking close to a session? Go for it. We'll do our best to place you in it, or you'll join the following one. 𝗪𝗛𝗔𝗧 𝗜𝗦 𝗥𝗘𝗟𝗔𝗧𝗜𝗢𝗡𝗔𝗟 𝗟𝗔𝗕? A guided connection experience for singles who want more honest, playful, emotionally intelligent interaction. Less performance. Less pressure. Far less small talk. 𝗥𝗲𝗮𝗹 𝗰𝗼𝗻𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘀𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻. 𝗥𝗲𝗮𝗹 𝗽𝗿𝗲𝘀𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲. 𝗥𝗲𝗮𝗹 𝘆𝗼𝘂. It's a facilitated relational container rooted in psychology, emotional intelligence, attachment work, social dynamics, nervous system awareness and real-world human connection, made practical enough that you can actually live it instead of reading another 50 books about it. 𝗪𝗛𝗔𝗧 𝗛𝗔𝗣𝗣𝗘𝗡𝗦 \- Two hours of live\, guided connection games from your own couch \- Cameras on\, everyone present: you laugh\, play\, move and engage \- Facilitated in real time by Eloah\, with 15 years of experience\, and shaped around whoever is there \- An optional in\-person gathering afterward for those who join the session\, where applicable \- A WhatsApp thread to stay connected\, where applicable 𝗪𝗛𝗔𝗧 𝗬𝗢𝗨 𝗧𝗔𝗞𝗘 𝗪𝗜𝗧𝗛 𝗬𝗢𝗨 \- The felt experience of being fully yourself with people you just met \- Relational tools you carry into dates\, friendships\, family and every room you walk into \- For some\, new friends\, a whole new circle\, even a partner\. We've seen all of it grow from here\. 𝗧𝗛𝗜𝗦 𝗠𝗔𝗬 𝗕𝗘 𝗙𝗢𝗥 𝗬𝗢𝗨 𝗜𝗙 \- You value growth\, and you want it to feel good\, fun and playful \- You'd rather experience something than just consume more content \- You're craving social spaces with more depth \- You want deeper connection without forced intimacy \- You're open to meeting people in a more intentional way 𝗤𝗨𝗘𝗦𝗧𝗜𝗢𝗡𝗦 𝗣𝗘𝗢𝗣𝗟𝗘 𝗔𝗦𝗞 𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗮𝗰𝘁𝘂𝗮𝗹𝗹𝘆 𝗵𝗮𝗽𝗽𝗲𝗻𝘀 𝗱𝘂𝗿𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘀𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗶𝗼𝗻? For 2 hours, you step into a parallel world where strangers stop feeling like strangers. We play connection games designed to drop the small talk, meet our common humanity, and exhale into the ease of being yourself with others. For some, it's the first time they've ever felt this. You're in control at all times, choosing your edges: playful and light, or bold and deep. Often, the lighter we play, the deeper it gets. We've seen people make lifelong friends, meet partners, even heal their relationship with a parent. It isn't therapy. It's what becomes possible when a space is held this well. 𝗜 𝗱𝗼𝗻'𝘁 𝘄𝗮𝗻𝘁 𝗮𝗻𝗼𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿 𝗭𝗼𝗼𝗺 𝗰𝗮𝗹𝗹. 𝗪𝗵𝘆 𝗼𝗻𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗲? Neither would we, if the only calls we'd been on were meetings that drag on or webinars where someone talks at you. This is the opposite. Everyone's camera is on, everyone's playing, and you feel connected within minutes. Facilitated with mastery, online is as powerful as being in the room. We know, because we've run both for years. You come exactly as you are, from your own couch, with no outfit, no commute and no awkward entrance. Most people leave lighter than they arrived. 𝗪𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝗜 𝗮𝗰𝘁𝘂𝗮𝗹𝗹𝘆 𝗺𝗲𝗲𝘁 𝗽𝗲𝗼𝗽𝗹𝗲 𝗶𝗻 𝗽𝗲𝗿𝘀𝗼𝗻? After the online session, you're invited to an optional gathering in person, where applicable. It's your chance to practice what you've learned out in the world, without the small talk. Eloah chooses the place and time with care, based on who was present, the weather, what's happening in the city that day, and sometimes what the group discovered about each other's passions and hobbies. 𝗗𝗼𝗲𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗹𝗮𝘀𝘁 𝗯𝗲𝘆𝗼𝗻𝗱 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘀𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗶𝗼𝗻? The tools are yours for life. You'll notice them on your next date, in your next hard conversation, at your next dinner with friends. People come back months later and tell us how differently they now walk into a room. 𝗛𝗼𝘄 𝗶𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗱𝗶𝗳𝗳𝗲𝗿𝗲𝗻𝘁 𝗳𝗿𝗼𝗺 𝗱𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗮𝗽𝗽𝘀? Dating apps are a tool. Connection games are a tool, too. What matters is how they're designed, how we use them, and the intention we bring. Here, you're among people who chose to show up with curiosity and a genuine desire to connect. Instead of trying to impress someone through a profile or a string of messages, you experience one another in real time. You discover how people listen, laugh, express themselves, navigate vulnerability and respond to others. And you get to notice how you feel in their presence. 𝗛𝗼𝘄 𝗶𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗱𝗶𝗳𝗳𝗲𝗿𝗲𝗻𝘁 𝗳𝗿𝗼𝗺 𝘀𝗽𝗲𝗲𝗱 𝗱𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴? It's slow dating, and the long game is the shortcut. Instead of pairing you up, rotating you and praying for chemistry, most games are played with everyone together, so you meet each other as humans first. Many people leave with new friends, some with a whole new circle, and if more develops over time, it grows from a solid foundation. On a first date, people show their best face. Here, you see the full face, and your chances of falling for a real, imperfect human are much higher. 𝗜𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝘁𝗮𝗻𝘁𝗿𝗮 𝗼𝗿 𝗮 𝘀𝗲𝘅𝘂𝗮𝗹 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗻𝘁? This is a connection-to-self-first space. Many people who ask this have had experiences where things got sexual or romantic too fast, and it felt forced. Sexual energy is one of the most powerful energies there is, and it deserves respect. Here, you connect to all of yourself first, and then to others as whole people. You learn relational frameworks you can play as gently or as boldly as you choose. Some people arrive mending a broken heart, unsure they even want to date again. Others arrive ready for something wild and alive. Nothing is pushed on you, and you move at your own pace. 𝗪𝗵𝗼 𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗲𝘀 𝘁𝗼 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝘀𝗲 𝘀𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀? People who want more depth in how they meet others. Some are new to the city and rebuilding their circle. Some are coming out of a long relationship and wondering where to start. Many have full, busy lives and still want more. Plenty are introverts who would never walk into a bar mixer. What they share: curiosity, an open heart and readiness to meet their equals. 𝗔𝗿𝗲 𝗽𝗲𝗼𝗽𝗹𝗲 𝗺𝘆 𝗮𝗴𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗲? Sessions are open to every adult age, so who's there changes from month to month. What people share is readiness for real connection, and that tends to matter far more than a birth year. Many say their most surprising connection was with someone they'd never have swiped on, or who would never have swiped on them. 𝗛𝗼𝘄 𝗺𝗮𝗻𝘆 𝗽𝗲𝗼𝗽𝗹𝗲 𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗲? Groups are kept small by design, so you're never just watching a screen full of talking heads. Connection deepens when there's room for every voice. This is also where you meet your city's introverts: you thought you knew everyone, and they've been hiding. If you happen to be the only one on the day, it becomes a private 1:1 session with Eloah, normally $319, at no extra cost to you. 𝗪𝗵𝘆 $𝟱𝟵? You're investing in an experience most people never have, held by a facilitator with 15 years of experience. One game, one moment, can change the trajectory of your life. We keep it as affordable as possible so this glimpse of what's possible can reach everyone. We tend to overestimate the cost of doing something, and underestimate the cost of not doing it. Each session takes its own shape with whoever is present. Sometimes expansive. Sometimes intimate. 𝗕𝗼𝘁𝗵 𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗿𝗲𝗮𝗹 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴. 𝗖𝗼𝗺𝗲 𝗮𝘀 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗮𝗿𝗲. 𝗘𝘅𝗽𝗲𝗿𝗶𝗲𝗻𝗰𝗲 𝗯𝗲𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗺𝗲𝘁. Free to RSVP. 👉 $59 to book your place: [https://consciousconnectionsclub.com/join](https://consciousconnectionsclub.com/join)

The Original Circling® Approach and Authentic Relating - IN BERKELEY!

Come Join - Our new IN-PERSON Event in Berkeley! **NOTE: This page is for information only.** **Please Ignore the Meetup "Not Open" Button.** **To REGISTER, go here...** [https://buytickets.at/thecirclinginsitute](https://buytickets.at/thecirclinginsitute) Authentic Relating and the “Original Circling® Approach” Be seen, heard, "gotten" & accepted and learn to do the same Do you crave: -More fulfilling relationships? -Conscious & loving community? -To feel more alive? Come play, experience & integrate practical skills to: -Create deep, intimate connections -Transform ordinary surface conversations into juicy, heart opening, enlightening explorations for personal insights & healing -Become more present & comfortable in your own skin -Uncover our “relational blind spots” where we push away the depth of connection & intimacy that’s possible -Practice listening to the essence of someone’s soul -“Get someone’s world” like a mind reader -Tap into the power of your vulnerability that has you more lovable -Be understood, appreciated & celebrated for the essence of who you are -Create more love, connection & community Join us for an evening of authentic relating, practicing profoundly unique skills like getting someone's world (deep empathy), sharing impact (honesty & vulnerability), and speaking the moment (courage, insight, shared reality, making connection more important than content). This work has been powerful and deeply nourishing for me and I'd love to share it with you. I’ve never seen a practice more adept at melting the distance between two hearts. \~ Jon Cotton What does a Circle look like in terms of format, with the Original Circling Approach? A group of 4-10 people sit in a circle & put their attention primarily on one person, and, with the help of a facilitator, notice what it's like being with this person moment by moment, share impact & observations, and co-explore what that person’s experience and world is like, essentially getting into deep relationship with what is most true & alive for that person. A typical evening includes introductions, an exercise to practice authentic relating & 2 rounds of circling - each approximately 30 minutes in length. The experience of “being seen” for who we authentically are is one of the most rewarding experiences we can have as human beings, and the Original Circling Approach teaches us how to see & celebrate each person for the unique flavor they bring to the world. We don’t give advice or try to fix anyone. Rather, we welcome and stay with “what is”, so we can relax into the truth of our experience, feel supported & know we are not alone. “Circling practice is to get in a deep relationship with what is.” * Guy Sengstock, Founder of The Original Circling Approach For deeper understanding, see 6 Things the Circling Practice Does Really Well… http://www.circlinginstitute.com/what-is-original-circling-approach/ **REGISTRATION:** Advanced registration and $30 payment required (Our last event sold out a week ahead of time). Register here: [https://buytickets.at/thecirclinginsitute](https://buytickets.at/thecirclinginsitute?fbclid=IwAR3Yz93WXF0qW8MMUlr423JkMYq4udL31Y0wZdBh-pP7N__QRxZzPsG-sSg) For more info: info@circlinginstitute.com. Your Facilitators: Jon Cotton, Guy Sengstock (Founder of The Circling Method) and/or Circling Institute Facilitators Together, they are not afraid to lead with their own humanity, vulnerability & humor to keep it real. Read more about Jon & Guy here... https://www.circlinginstitute.com/about/ \-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\- The term “Circling®” is a registered trademark. The Circling Institute has a license from the International Circling Federation to use the term, in accordance with their guidelines, in relation to the training and facilitation we offer. We are also one of three schools licensed to offer Circling Certification. You can read about the unique distinctions between the three lineages, as well as the standards of service required of licensees, on [The Circling Federation website](https://internationalcirclingfederation.org/). Only practitioners who have been trained, certified & licensed will display the Circling Federation logo.

The Original Circling® Approach and Authentic Relating - IN BERKELEY!

Come Join - Our new IN-PERSON Event in Berkeley! **NOTE: This page is for information only.** **Please Ignore the Meetup "Not Open" Button.** **To REGISTER, go here...** [https://buytickets.at/thecirclinginsitute](https://buytickets.at/thecirclinginsitute) Authentic Relating and the “Original Circling® Approach” Be seen, heard, "gotten" & accepted and learn to do the same NOTE: Once we get the IN PERSON event going and established in Berkeley, we will look for a venue in the Peninsula as well. If you are interested in hosting events in your home, let us know! Do you crave: -More fulfilling relationships? -Conscious & loving community? -To feel more alive? Come play, experience & integrate practical skills to: -Create deep, intimate connections -Transform ordinary surface conversations into juicy, heart opening, enlightening explorations for personal insights & healing -Become more present & comfortable in your own skin -Uncover our “relational blind spots” where we push away the depth of connection & intimacy that’s possible -Practice listening to the essence of someone’s soul -“Get someone’s world” like a mind reader -Tap into the power of your vulnerability that has you more lovable -Be understood, appreciated & celebrated for the essence of who you are -Create more love, connection & community Join us for an evening of authentic relating, practicing profoundly unique skills like getting someone's world (deep empathy), sharing impact (honesty & vulnerability), and speaking the moment (courage, insight, shared reality, making connection more important than content). This work has been powerful and deeply nourishing for me and I'd love to share it with you. I’ve never seen a practice more adept at melting the distance between two hearts. \~ Jon Cotton What does a Circle look like in terms of format, with the Original Circling Approach? A group of 4-10 people sit in a circle & put their attention primarily on one person, and, with the help of a facilitator, notice what it's like being with this person moment by moment, share impact & observations, and co-explore what that person’s experience and world is like, essentially getting into deep relationship with what is most true & alive for that person. A typical evening includes introductions, an exercise to practice authentic relating & 2 rounds of circling - each approximately 30 minutes in length. The experience of “being seen” for who we authentically are is one of the most rewarding experiences we can have as human beings, and the Original Circling Approach teaches us how to see & celebrate each person for the unique flavor they bring to the world. We don’t give advice or try to fix anyone. Rather, we welcome and stay with “what is”, so we can relax into the truth of our experience, feel supported & know we are not alone. “Circling practice is to get in a deep relationship with what is.” * Guy Sengstock, Founder of The Original Circling Approach For deeper understanding, see 6 Things the Circling Practice Does Really Well… http://www.circlinginstitute.com/what-is-original-circling-approach/ **REGISTRATION:** Advanced registration and $30 payment required (Our last event sold out a week ahead of time). Register here: [https://buytickets.at/thecirclinginsitute](https://buytickets.at/thecirclinginsitute?fbclid=IwAR3Yz93WXF0qW8MMUlr423JkMYq4udL31Y0wZdBh-pP7N__QRxZzPsG-sSg) For more information, contact us at info@circlinginstitute.com Your Facilitators: Jon Cotton, Guy Sengstock (Founder of The Circling Method) and/or Circling Institute Facilitators (One of these facilitators and/or our well trained staff will be leading this event). Together, they are not afraid to lead with their own humanity, vulnerability and humor to keep it real. Read more about Jon & Guy here... https://www.circlinginstitute.com/about/ \-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\-\- The term “Circling®” is a registered trademark. The Circling Institute has a license from the International Circling Federation to use the term, in accordance with their guidelines, in relation to the training and facilitation we offer. We are also one of three schools licensed to offer Circling Certification. You can read about the unique distinctions between the three lineages, as well as the standards of service required of licensees, on [The Circling Federation website](https://internationalcirclingfederation.org/). Only practitioners who have been trained, certified & licensed will display the Circling Federation logo.

Explore Your Enneagram Paradox

This monthly series explores the profound and practical wisdom of the Enneagram—a nuanced map of our inner landscape and potentiality. This dynamic framework reveals not only the ways we limit our capacity, but also the pathways back to our innate intelligence and compassion—wisdom that lives beyond ordinary knowledge. An essential step on the journey of awakening is learning to see ourselves as we truly are. As we relax more fully into our direct experience, our deeper nature begins to reveal itself. Something softens—we fall a little more in love with who and what we truly are. Together, we’ll explore the paradox of each Enneagram type: the drive and longing to find something that, in truth, was never lost. In our time together we’ll engage in experiential practices and reflections that engage our body, heart and mind. Being in the space together, each doing their own work, creates a field of transformation for all. Whether you are a seasoned student of the Enneagram or completely new to this map of the inner landscape, you are welcome here. **Folks new to the Enneagram are encouraged to join!** You don't need to know your core type in order to benefit from the class. The Enneagram Institute uses the RHETI test, which you can find here: [https://tests.enneagraminstitute.com/.](https://tests.enneagraminstitute.com/) Please note there is a $20 fee for the test, and it will provide you with three possible types that your core type may be. It is important to remember that this is just a test and no test is 100% accurate. Since numerous factors constitute one's core motivations, everyone should take the results lightly. After completing the test, begin observing yourself closely to see what is true for you. **Join us in person at 2929 24th street** \*\*OR online via Zoom: \*\*[https://tinyurl.com/SFDharma](https://tinyurl.com/SFDharma) (password: **108108**) **or 301-715-8592 to join by phone. Meeting ID: 545 039 806** ​**Diana Redmond** is a Professional Certified Coach (PCC) and an accredited Enneagram teacher and professional member of the International Enneagram Association. She is known for her presence-based, inquiry-driven approach to transformation. For over 25 years, she has coached and mentored individuals and groups in cultivating self-awareness, authenticity, and wholehearted living. A former senior faculty member with the Deep Coaching Institute and instructor at San Francisco State University, Diana integrates the Enneagram as a potent framework for coaching excellence and embodied spiritual development. In her private practice, she mentors coaches and leaders, and also collaborates with Deep Living Lab to facilitate transformative experiences that awaken wisdom, compassion, and radical acceptance—a cornerstone of her work and the foundation for meaningful change. Grounded in decades of spiritual practice and nondual study, including years of training with Siddha Yoga master Swami Muktananda, Diana brings rare depth, warmth, and clarity to her teaching. She continues her ongoing Enneagram study and inner work with Sandra Maitri of the Diamond Approach. ​Suggested donation $20 - $40.

Elevate your life

Join us for an evening of connection, laughter, and challenge — no fluff, no judgment, just good fun, honest conversation, and solid brotherhood. Whether you're craving purpose, support, or just something different… this is the night you've been needing.

Business Professionals Dinner Alexanders Steakhouse Cupertino | Nov 12, 2026

Complimentary invitation-only dinner on growing and scaling your business, hosted by Growth-Scaling.com at Alexander's Steakhouse Cupertino. Join business owners and leaders in law, healthcare, construction, architecture, engineering, and other related industries on **Thursday, November 12th, 2026, from 5:30PM to 8PM at Alexander's Steakhouse Cupertino**. Private dining room, dinner, and it's complimentary. **Why free?** This is how we meet the business owners and business leaders in Cupertino we want to know. The dinner is our introduction. You leave with a full stomach and a clear picture of what's actually holding your revenue where it is. **The talk: How to Grow and Scale Your Business** Most firms don't have a marketing problem. They have a scale problem, the owner is the bottleneck, revenue plateaus, and every new client adds work instead of profit. **David Mitroff, Ph.D**. and **Steven Lockhart** walk through the five-phase Growth Scaling Method from their book, the same method they use with their own clients: • **Orient** — the one number every firm owner needs to know before spending another dollar on growth • **Measure** — where your leads, revenue and time are leaking right now • **Engineer** — picking the one growth path that fits your firm, and saying no to the rest • **Build** — the systems that let the firm grow without you working more hours • **Compound** — how referrals, reputation and online presence stack on each other year over year Seating is limited and attendance is by invitation. Reserve your complimentary seat now — once the room is full, it's full. **RSVP NOW: [https://alexanders-business-dinner-sc.eventbrite.com](https://alexanders-business-dinner-sc.eventbrite.com/)** ***RSVP on Meetup does not guarantee admission!*** Prefer to talk to a person first? Call or text our Northern California office at **[510-761-5895](https://www.eventbrite.com/e/professional-services-business-owners-leaders-lunch-ruths-chris-irvine-tickets-2001241118056?aff=oddtdtcreator)**[,](https://www.eventbrite.com/e/professional-services-business-owners-leaders-lunch-ruths-chris-irvine-tickets-2001241118056?aff=oddtdtcreator) email **[team@growth-scaling.com](https://team@growth-scaling.com/)**, or fill out the event form at \*\*[https://growth-scaling.com/#event ](https://growth-scaling.com/#event)\*\*and we'll hold a seat for you. *Every guest is also offered a complimentary private growth session for their own firm after the dinner. Optional, and yours if you want it.* You can schedule a 30-minute call with **David Mitroff, Ph.D. and Steven Lockhart** at a time that works best for you: **Schedule your call here:** **[https://calendly.com/team-growth-scaling/30min](https://calendly.com/team-growth-scaling/30min)** **Business Professionals Dinner** Thursday, November 12th, 2026 · 5:30–8:00 PM · **Alexander’s Steakhouse in Cupertino** Join a private dining room of Cupertino practice owners for dinner and an hour on what actually grows a business. **What we'll cover** * **Why growth stalls.** The four ceilings that stop a practice — and why more marketing spend fixes none of them. * **The three numbers.** What a new patient costs you, what a patient is worth, and how long until you're paid back. Most owners have never run them. * **Where practices lose patients.** The gap between the phone call and the appointment, and what it costs you every month. * **Being found, trusted and chosen.** How patients — and now AI search — decide which practice to call. * **One path that compounds.** Why one finished acquisition channel beats five half-built ones. * **The first ninety days.** A sequence you can run in your own practice, starting the next morning. **Who's leading it** **David Mitroff, Ph.D.** is a business growth strategist and keynote speaker with a Ph.D. in clinical psychology. He has taught at UC Berkeley, spoken twice at TEDx, mentored for Google for Startups, written five books on business growth, and advised over thousand of clients. **Steven Lockhart** has spent more than 25 years growing healthcare practices — SEO, websites, content, reputation and patient acquisition. He's a Lean Six Sigma Black Belt and works with medical practices across more than 30 specialties. Seating is limited and attendance is by invitation. Reserve your complimentary seat now — once the room is full, it's full. **RSVP NOW: [https://alexanders-business-dinner-sc.eventbrite.com](https://alexanders-business-dinner-sc.eventbrite.com/)** ***RSVP on Meetup does not guarantee admission!*** Prefer to talk to a person first? Call or text our Northern California office at **[510-761-5895](https://www.eventbrite.com/e/professional-services-business-owners-leaders-lunch-ruths-chris-irvine-tickets-2001241118056?aff=oddtdtcreator)**[,](https://www.eventbrite.com/e/professional-services-business-owners-leaders-lunch-ruths-chris-irvine-tickets-2001241118056?aff=oddtdtcreator) email **[team@growth-scaling.com](https://team@growth-scaling.com/)**, or fill out the event form at \*\*[https://growth-scaling.com/#event ](https://growth-scaling.com/#event)\*\*and we'll hold a seat for you. *Every guest is also offered a complimentary private growth session for their own firm after the dinner. Optional, and yours if you want it.* You can schedule a 30-minute call with **David Mitroff, Ph.D. and Steven Lockhart** at a time that works best for you: **Schedule your call here:** **[https://calendly.com/team-growth-scaling/30min](https://calendly.com/team-growth-scaling/30min)** ***RSVP on Meetup does not guarantee admission!*** Growth Scaling helps businesses achieve sustainable growth through proven digital marketing solutions and effective business strategies. Whether you're looking to attract more customers, increase revenue, strengthen your brand, or scale your operations, our team provides customized strategies designed to deliver measurable results. Learn more about how we can help grow your business by callus today at **[510-761-5895](https://www.eventbrite.com/e/professional-services-business-owners-leaders-lunch-ruths-chris-irvine-tickets-2001241118056?aff=oddtdtcreator)** or visit our website **[https://growth-scaling.com/](https://growth-scaling.com/)**. [Growth Scaling](https://growth-scaling.com/) is proud to host this exclusive **Business Professionals Dinner** at **Alexander’s Steakhouse in Cupertino**, one of the Bay Area’s premier fine-dining destinations. This intimate evening brings together business professionals, practice owners, executives, and business leaders for meaningful conversations, valuable insights, and exceptional dining in an elegant setting. Enjoy a delicious steakhouse dinner while **David Mitroff, Ph.D.** and **Stephen Lockhart** lead a focused **20-minute presentation** on practical strategies to grow your business. The discussion will cover digital marketing, branding, patient acquisition, business development, and proven ways to strengthen your practice or clinic in today's competitive market. Following the talk, guests will have the opportunity to network, exchange ideas, ask questions, and build valuable professional relationships in a relaxed and welcoming atmosphere. **Location:** **Alexander's Steakhouse Cupertino** **19379 Stevens Creek Blvd, Cupertino, CA 95014** We look forward to welcoming you for an evening of insightful discussion, excellent cuisine, and meaningful connections. Seating is limited and attendance is by invitation. Reserve your complimentary seat now — once the room is full, it's full. **RSVP NOW: [https://alexanders-business-dinner-sc.eventbrite.com](https://alexanders-business-dinner-sc.eventbrite.com/)** ***RSVP on Meetup does not guarantee admission!*** Prefer to talk to a person first? Call or text our Northern California office at **[510-761-5895](https://www.eventbrite.com/e/professional-services-business-owners-leaders-lunch-ruths-chris-irvine-tickets-2001241118056?aff=oddtdtcreator)**[,](https://www.eventbrite.com/e/professional-services-business-owners-leaders-lunch-ruths-chris-irvine-tickets-2001241118056?aff=oddtdtcreator) email **[team@growth-scaling.com](https://team@growth-scaling.com/)**, or fill out the event form at \*\*[https://growth-scaling.com/#event ](https://growth-scaling.com/#event)\*\*and we'll hold a seat for you. *Every guest is also offered a complimentary private growth session for their own firm after the dinner. Optional, and yours if you want it.* You can schedule a 30-minute call with **David Mitroff, Ph.D. and Steven Lockhart** at a time that works best for you: **Schedule your call here:** **[https://calendly.com/team-growth-scaling/30min](https://calendly.com/team-growth-scaling/30min)** **Meet David Mitroff, Ph.D. – Business Growth Strategist & Co-Founder of Growth Scaling** David Mitroff, Ph.D. is a nationally recognized Business Growth Strategist, keynote speaker, executive coach, and marketing consultant dedicated to helping businesses accelerate growth, increase revenue, and build lasting customer relationships. As the Co-Founder of **[Growth Scaling](https://growth-scaling.com/)** and Founder of a Consulting Firm, David works with entrepreneurs, executives, startups, and established organizations to create practical growth strategies that deliver measurable results. Through **Growth Scaling**, David helps businesses identify new opportunities, strengthen their brand, improve customer acquisition, optimize marketing performance, and develop scalable systems for long-term success. His approach combines proven business strategy with innovative marketing techniques, allowing organizations to stand out in competitive markets while creating sustainable growth. David is a sought-after speaker who delivers engaging presentations on business growth, strategic networking, brand positioning, digital marketing, leadership, customer experience, AI for business, and relationship building. His presentations provide audiences with practical, actionable strategies they can immediately implement to grow their organizations. David earned a Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology with additional coursework in Business Administration, Marketing, and Legal Studies. His diverse educational background, combined with extensive professional sales and consulting experience, enables him to challenge assumptions, develop creative solutions, and guide organizations from strategy through successful execution. Throughout his career, David has served as an instructor for prestigious institutions, including the University of California, Berkeley, and has been featured as a business expert by NBC, ABC, Forbes, Entrepreneur, Inc. Magazine, The Washington Post, Hospitality Technology, Hospitality Net, and numerous other media outlets. David is also the author of several business books, including ***Online Business Growth Strategies*, *Law Firm Business Growth Strategies*, *The Event Effect***, and other publications focused on marketing, networking, and business development. Whether you're looking to increase sales, generate qualified leads, improve customer retention, develop a stronger marketing strategy, or scale your business for long-term success, **Growth Scaling** provides the expertise and guidance to help you achieve your goals. **Ready to grow your business?** Schedule a complimentary consultation with **David Mitroff, Ph.D.** and discover how Growth Scaling can help your business reach the next level. Seating is limited and attendance is by invitation. Reserve your complimentary seat now — once the room is full, it's full. **RSVP NOW: [https://alexanders-business-dinner-sc.eventbrite.com](https://alexanders-business-dinner-sc.eventbrite.com/)** ***RSVP on Meetup does not guarantee admission!*** Prefer to talk to a person first? Call or text our Northern California office at **[510-761-5895](https://www.eventbrite.com/e/professional-services-business-owners-leaders-lunch-ruths-chris-irvine-tickets-2001241118056?aff=oddtdtcreator)**[,](https://www.eventbrite.com/e/professional-services-business-owners-leaders-lunch-ruths-chris-irvine-tickets-2001241118056?aff=oddtdtcreator) email **[team@growth-scaling.com](https://team@growth-scaling.com/)**, or fill out the event form at \*\*[https://growth-scaling.com/#event ](https://growth-scaling.com/#event)\*\*and we'll hold a seat for you. *Every guest is also offered a complimentary private growth session for their own firm after the dinner. Optional, and yours if you want it.* You can schedule a 30-minute call with **David Mitroff, Ph.D. and Steven Lockhart** at a time that works best for you: **Schedule your call here:** **[https://calendly.com/team-growth-scaling/30min](https://calendly.com/team-growth-scaling/30min)** **Meet Steven Lockhart – Digital Marketing CEO & Co-Partner of Growth Scaling** Steven Lockhart is the Founder & CEO of Healthcare-related Marketing Firm and Co-Partner of Growth Scaling, bringing more than 25 years of experience in digital marketing, business strategy, and healthcare practice growth. He has dedicated his career to helping medical practices build a stronger online presence, attract more patients, and achieve sustainable growth through innovative digital marketing strategies. As the founder of Marketing Firm, Steven leads a team focused exclusively on serving healthcare organizations. His expertise includes healthcare SEO, website development, content marketing, local search optimization, branding, reputation management, and patient acquisition strategies. His healthcare-first approach enables medical practices to navigate the unique challenges of the industry while building long-term digital authority and measurable business growth. In his role as Co-Partner of Growth Scaling, Steven works with business owners and executive teams to develop digital marketing strategies that increase visibility, generate qualified leads, and create scalable systems for growth. His experience in marketing leadership, technology, analytics, and business development helps organizations implement data-driven strategies that produce lasting results across healthcare and other professional service industries. Steven is also the author of ***The Ultimate Guide to Digital Marketing: A Partnership Approach to Building Your Digital Legacy***, a practical resource that provides business owners and marketing professionals with actionable strategies for building a strong digital presence, creating lasting customer relationships, and developing a sustainable marketing framework for long-term growth. His insights reflect decades of experience helping organizations adapt to changing technologies while remaining focused on delivering exceptional value to their customers. Through his leadership, strategic vision, and passion for innovation, Steven continues to help businesses embrace digital transformation, strengthen their market position, and achieve meaningful, measurable results. Whether your goal is to attract more customers, improve marketing performance, build a stronger online presence, or scale your business, Steven Lockhart and the Growth Scaling team provide the expertise and guidance to help you succeed. Seating is limited and attendance is by invitation. Reserve your complimentary seat now — once the room is full, it's full. **RSVP NOW: [https://alexanders-business-dinner-sc.eventbrite.com](https://alexanders-business-dinner-sc.eventbrite.com/)** ***RSVP on Meetup does not guarantee admission!*** Prefer to talk to a person first? Call or text our Northern California office at **[510-761-5895](https://www.eventbrite.com/e/professional-services-business-owners-leaders-lunch-ruths-chris-irvine-tickets-2001241118056?aff=oddtdtcreator)**[,](https://www.eventbrite.com/e/professional-services-business-owners-leaders-lunch-ruths-chris-irvine-tickets-2001241118056?aff=oddtdtcreator) email **[team@growth-scaling.com](https://team@growth-scaling.com/)**, or fill out the event form at [https://growth-scaling.com/#event ](https://growth-scaling.com/#event) and we'll hold a seat for you. *Every guest is also offered a complimentary private growth session for their own firm after the dinner. Optional, and yours if you want it.* You can schedule a 30-minute call with **David Mitroff, Ph.D. and Steven Lockhart** at a time that works best for you: **Schedule your call here:** **[https://calendly.com/team-growth-scaling/30min](https://calendly.com/team-growth-scaling/30min)** **[Growth Scaling](https://growth-scaling.com/)** helps construction companies, law firms, and healthcare organizations accelerate business growth through strategic consulting, data-driven marketing, and proven growth systems. We partner with business owners and leadership teams to strengthen their brand, generate qualified leads, improve client acquisition, and create scalable processes that drive long-term success. Whether you're looking to expand your market presence, increase revenue, attract higher-value clients, or streamline operations, Growth Scaling provides customized strategies designed for your industry. By combining business development, digital marketing, automation, and operational excellence, we help organizations build sustainable growth, outperform competitors, and achieve measurable results. Seating is limited and attendance is by invitation. Reserve your complimentary seat now — once the room is full, it's full. **RSVP NOW: [https://alexanders-business-dinner-sc.eventbrite.com](https://alexanders-business-dinner-sc.eventbrite.com/)** ***RSVP on Meetup does not guarantee admission!*** Prefer to talk to a person first? Call or text our Northern California office at **[510-761-5895](https://www.eventbrite.com/e/professional-services-business-owners-leaders-lunch-ruths-chris-irvine-tickets-2001241118056?aff=oddtdtcreator)**[,](https://www.eventbrite.com/e/professional-services-business-owners-leaders-lunch-ruths-chris-irvine-tickets-2001241118056?aff=oddtdtcreator) email **[team@growth-scaling.com](https://team@growth-scaling.com/)**, or fill out the event form at \*\*[https://growth-scaling.com/#event ](https://growth-scaling.com/#event)\*\*and we'll hold a seat for you. *Every guest is also offered a complimentary private growth session for their own firm after the dinner. Optional, and yours if you want it.* You can schedule a 30-minute call with **David Mitroff, Ph.D. and Steven Lockhart** at a time that works best for you: **Schedule your call here:** **[https://calendly.com/team-growth-scaling/30mi](https://calendly.com/team-growth-scaling/30min)**

Chuang Tzu on Knowledge, Skill, and Letting Go

For this session we’ll read chapters 2, 3, 6, 18, and 19 of Burton Watson’s translation of *The Complete Works of Chuang Tzu* (also known as the *Zhuangzi*). Together, they ask what it means to live well when our judgments about what is right, useful, or worth pursuing may be less secure than we think. Chapter 2 questions whether any one perspective can settle a disagreement and ends with Chuang Tzu’s famous butterfly dream. In chapter 3, Cook Ting’s effortless way of cutting up an ox offers a surprising picture of skill: he succeeds by working with what is there rather than forcing his way through it. Chapters 6 and 18 take that attitude into harder territory—illness, grief, death, and the search for happiness. Chapter 19 returns to skill and asks what it might mean to “master” life without trying to control everything in it. Is Chuang Tzu asking us to give up on truth, or to hold our convictions more lightly? Can we accept change without becoming passive? And is the good life something we achieve, or something we stop getting in the way of? The reading can be found [here](https://terebess.hu/english/chuangtzu.html)

Alameda Tongue Twisters, a Toastmasters Club

Every Tuesday we meet! Do you want to level up your public speaking? Maybe you’re working on job skills, running a meeting, or feeling comfortable talking to groups. Maybe you just want something to do on Tuesdays! We are a safe and welcoming place to explore your skills. There is no fee until you decide to become a full member, and you can be a guest as many times as you want. Come check us out and see if it’s right for you. We'd love to meet ya. :)

Data Engineering Automation in the World of Agentic AI

Join us for the USF Data Science Speaker Series, featuring [Deep Patel](https://www.linkedin.com/in/deeppatel710/), Staff Data Engineer at Robinhood! Learn how AI agents are changing the way data engineers build and operate data analytics. This session explores using agents to generate and maintain pipelines, investigate failures, monitor data quality, automate testing and documentation, and create reusable workflows and guardrails for safely scaling AI-assisted data engineering. How to Crack Data Engineering Interviews A practical guide to preparing for modern data engineering interviews, covering data modeling, system design, ETL and streaming architectures, data quality, SLAs, CDC, scalability, and common trade-offs. The session also explains how to structure answers, reason through ambiguous business problems, and approach end-to-end design interviews effectively. **About the Speaker** Deep Patel is a Staff Data Engineer at Robinhood, where he designs and builds large-scale real-time data systems powering analytics, risk, and user-facing insights. His work focuses on product data engineering and on turning complex event streams into reliable, low-latency datasets. Deep is particularly interested in scalable data infrastructure, real-time analytics, and bridging the gap between data engineering and product impact. #USFDataScienceSpeakerSeries #MSDSAI #DataScience #DataEngineering #AgenticAI #ArtificialIntelligence #DataPipelines #DataAnalytics #DataEngineeringInterviews #CareerDevelopment #Robinhood