
What we’re about
Meaningful Discussions is the largest face-to-face discussion group with events taking place in 11 countries:
http://www.meaningfuldiscussions.org
Our ongoing mission is to explore the art and science of meaningful discussions and to initiate these discussions in cities around the world. Our team has collectively coordinated over 1,000 events since 2012 and we have combined this experience into this project.
Discussion Topics:
We believe that discussion topics need to be intriguing, practical and relevant in order to be able to compete with the ever-growing list of television shows and other less engaging activities which lead to social isolation.
Intentions For Our Discussions:
Meaningful discussions are not debates or lectures. Each discussion is an opportunity for participants to collectively explore a topic with the following intentions:
1. To have an enjoyable and engaging experience with open-minded individuals while also improving our conversations skills.
2. To learn something new from each other by sharing our insights and unique perspectives based on our life experiences.
3. To learn something new about ourselves by re-examining our values and beliefs based on hearing new perspectives which we may or may not agree with.
4. To build a community of returning members and to create a conducive environment for new friendships.
How are we different from other discussion groups?
1. Structure. Most other discussion groups have a free-form structure where everyone is seated at a long table or in one large group. Our events have multiple groups of 5-7 people with one facilitator at each table and discussion questions provided.
2. Preparation Time. Most other discussion groups will provide a very brief outline of the topic. In contrast, we spend a lot of time creating topic packages which include Food For Thought videos and discussion notes.
3. Intention. Most discussion groups put more emphasis on the topic being discussed but not on actually creating a meaningful experience. In contrast, creating meaningful experiences is our primary focus and our mission.
What qualifications do you need to join this group?
All you need to join our group is an open-mind, humility in knowing that we all have lots to learn from other perspectives and a desire to improve your conversation skills while having fun at the same time.
For more information please visit:
http://meaningfuldiscussions.org
Thanks to our sponsor:
Buddytree - upgrade your social life with a friendship coach. https://buddytree.org
Upcoming events
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•OnlineThe Problem of Evil
Online## Details
This discussion will be hosted and moderated by Ceit Hustedde (Longtime Member of Buddytree)
Here are a few important points.
- The discussion questions are viewable online, so we will save paper by not printing them out.
Here are the video and discussion questions for this event:
https://www.buddytree.org/hangout/RxIeIIgjvRThere is a topic Good and Evil, but this is another step deeper into one side of it. Here are the videos and discussion questions for this hangout:
An introduction https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9AzNEG1GB-k (10:03)JRR Tolkien and Evil https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BjE94hbxjLI (10:53)
Evil human nature https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V-lLwQ_F8ko (4:08)
Have we all become evil? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KVl5kMXz1vA (33:50)
The famous banality of evil https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4la6DkldJyc (3:46)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2LjAESuTW-U (8:20)One woman stands against evil https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uCjUeNOGhgQ (17:39)
Reaction to "The Lucifer Effect" [Philip Zimbardo] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O-4DwOauRGI (21:49) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jJ3WlWM0lGc (Pt 2) (24:25)
A little reading, if you like https://onlysky.media/alee/tolkien-never-solved-the-problem-of-evil/
1. Does evil really exist? Could it just be an unavoidable conflict of needs?
2. If you think evil does exist, how do you define it? Are there people who are truly evil?
3. Do you think you could avoid committing evil? How can you be sure?
4. What should we do, as a society, with those who commit evil acts? Are they at the same level as those who commit "normal" crimes, or should there be a separate authority to deal with them?
5. Is there an essence or spirit of evil that exists outside of the material world, or is the experience of evil dependent on consciousness/observation?
6. Are only humans evil? Why (not)?
Please remember to watch at least a few videos before you arrive since we’ll be discussing them when we begin. Once the hangout begins, everyone will introduce each other and then take turns asking the provided questions in order to keep the discussion on topic. Hangouts typically last 90 minutes, and once the hangout is over you will have the opportunity to add people to your buddytree to organize private hangouts and develop friendships. As always, these hangouts provide the opportunity for a thoughtful, respectful and engaging discussion in a safe space where disrespectful behavior is not tolerated.
5 attendees
Fishing Expeditions in the Pacific and Caribbean Sea
Balefire Brewing Company, 21517 E Cliff Dr, Santa Cruz, CA, US## Details
Here are a few important points.
- The discussion questions are viewable online, so we will save paper by not printing them out.
Here are the video and discussion questions for this event:
Videos:
- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PndlcttJkgM (10:37)
- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AdBwca6-sSw&t=52s (16:35) 3.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dr14lscGkFA (6:46) 4.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ksfF9ZNsupE (17:54)
- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Uj5QQySCF7s (7:49)
Reading (Optional):
- https://www.nytimes.com/2025/10/02/us/politics/trump-drug-cartels-war.html
- https://www.economist.com/united-states/2025/10/13/the-new-war-on-drugs
- https://www.economist.com/united-states/2025/10/23/donald-trump-has-turned-the-war-on-drugs-into-a-real-war
- https://www.economist.com/briefing/2025/10/16/the-traffickers-are-winning-the-war-on-drugs
- https://www.theatlantic.com/national-security/archive/2025/10/caribbean-drug-boat-strikes/684481/
Spanish (Optional):
- https://elpais.com/internacional/2025-10-24/estados-unidos-anuncia-un-nuevo-ataque-con-seis-muertos-contra-una-narcolancha-en-el-caribe.html
- https://elpais.com/america-colombia/2025-10-24/geopolitica-del-miedo-la-presencia-militar-estadounidense-sitia-latinoamerica.html
- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8FFT4dVHgWs&t=1451s (33:22)
Italian (Optional):
- https://www.internazionale.it/notizie/2025/09/09/trump-guerra-alla-droga-venezuela
2.https://lavocedinewyork.com/news/2025/10/24/trump-manda-una-portaerei-davanti-al-venezuela-dopo-il-decimo-attacco-contro-presunti-narcos/ - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1gtZWQqLj0 (13:15)
Questions:
1. What are the root causes of the drug trade in the Pacific and Caribbean regions, and how can they be addressed?
2. What are the human costs of the war on drugs, including violence, displacement, and human rights abuses?
3. How can international cooperation and intelligence sharing be improved to combat drug trafficking?
4. What alternative approaches to drug policy have been successful in other regions or countries?
5. How can countries in the Pacific and Caribbean regions improve cooperation and coordination on drug control efforts?
6. How has the war on drugs impacts indigenous communities in the Pacific and Caribbean regions?
7. What alternative economic opportunities can be developed to reduce dependence on the drug trade? In Collaboration with Ceit Hustedde (Longtime Member of Buddytree)
4 attendees
•OnlineFishing Expeditions in the Pacific and Caribbean Sea
Online## Details
Here are a few important points.
- The discussion questions are viewable online, so we will save paper by not printing them out.
Here are the video and discussion questions for this event:
Videos:
- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PndlcttJkgM (10:37)
- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AdBwca6-sSw&t=52s (16:35) 3.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dr14lscGkFA (6:46) 4.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ksfF9ZNsupE (17:54)
- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Uj5QQySCF7s (7:49)
Reading (Optional):
- https://www.nytimes.com/2025/10/02/us/politics/trump-drug-cartels-war.html
- https://www.economist.com/united-states/2025/10/13/the-new-war-on-drugs
- https://www.economist.com/united-states/2025/10/23/donald-trump-has-turned-the-war-on-drugs-into-a-real-war
- https://www.economist.com/briefing/2025/10/16/the-traffickers-are-winning-the-war-on-drugs
- https://www.theatlantic.com/national-security/archive/2025/10/caribbean-drug-boat-strikes/684481/
Spanish (Optional):
- https://elpais.com/internacional/2025-10-24/estados-unidos-anuncia-un-nuevo-ataque-con-seis-muertos-contra-una-narcolancha-en-el-caribe.html
- https://elpais.com/america-colombia/2025-10-24/geopolitica-del-miedo-la-presencia-militar-estadounidense-sitia-latinoamerica.html
- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8FFT4dVHgWs&t=1451s (33:22)
Italian (Optional):
- https://www.internazionale.it/notizie/2025/09/09/trump-guerra-alla-droga-venezuela
2.https://lavocedinewyork.com/news/2025/10/24/trump-manda-una-portaerei-davanti-al-venezuela-dopo-il-decimo-attacco-contro-presunti-narcos/ - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1gtZWQqLj0 (13:15)
Questions:
1. What are the root causes of the drug trade in the Pacific and Caribbean regions, and how can they be addressed?
2. What are the human costs of the war on drugs, including violence, displacement, and human rights abuses?
3. How can international cooperation and intelligence sharing be improved to combat drug trafficking?
4. What alternative approaches to drug policy have been successful in other regions or countries?
5. How can countries in the Pacific and Caribbean regions improve cooperation and coordination on drug control efforts?
6. How has the war on drugs impacts indigenous communities in the Pacific and Caribbean regions?
7. What alternative economic opportunities can be developed to reduce dependence on the drug trade? In Collaboration with Ceit Hustedde (Longtime Member of Buddytree)
4 attendees
•OnlineThe United Nations: Reform or Rupture?
Online## Details
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Here are a few important points.- The discussion questions are viewable online, so we will save paper by not printing them out.
Here are the video and discussion questions for this event:
- https://www.buddytree.org/hangout/nITXgNffp1
Videos:
- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v6xyT6XUFz0 (3:32) 2.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vTNacFxraoA (8:41)
- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O12vuDtVkw0 (16:39) 4.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=25nHLC6UbD8 (10:21) 5.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2HpQyXBney8 (3:36) 6.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0eEeYSo_bV8 (2:25)
- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9pOQzujEgGY (3:33)
- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7QrPxxIiwIs (38:27)
Reading (Optional):
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https://www.economist.com/international/2025/09/18/the-uns-grim-future
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https://globalaffairs.org/commentary/analysis/un-turning-80-it-still-relevant
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https://www.iisd.org/articles/explainer/unga80-what-un80-and-key-issues-watch
Spanish (Optional):
Italian (Optional):
Questions:
1. What are the most significant achievements of the United Nations in its 80 years of existence?
2. What reforms are necessary to ensure the UN remains effective and relevant in addressing global challenges?
3. What role should the UN play in promoting sustainable development and addressing climate change?
4. How can the UN balance national sovereignty with collective security and human rights?
5. What are the most pressing global challenges facing the UN in the next 10-20 years?
6. How can the UN promote greater diversity and representation within its own institutions?
7. What metrics or indicators can be used to measure the UN's effectiveness in achieving its goals?
In Collaboration with Ceit Hustedde (Longtime Member of Buddytree)
5 attendees
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