About us
Welcome to New Jersey LGBTQ+ Meetups!
We're your go-to source for all things LGBTQ+ happening in New Jersey. We promote and showcase the many events organized by various LGBTQ+ groups in the state. *We are not affiliated with any one organization or group - just facilitator to help you find many of the vibrant LGBTQ+ events in NJ*
Stay tuned for the best happy hours, activities, book clubs and many other exciting happenings nearby! If you have LGBTQ+ events you'd like to advertise, please reach out to us with plenty of notice so we can add them, here.
Upcoming events
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Gay Social's Refresh & Connect (TIX REQ)
Bossa Massages & Wellness, 811 Washington Road, Suite 1A, Parlin, NJ, USGET YOUR TICKET HERE - REQUIRED TO ATTEND
This event is organized by Gay Social, a 501(c)(3) nonprofit dedicated to fostering connections within our LGBTQ+ community through vibrant and inclusive social events. Join us to celebrate diversity, build friendships, and have some fun! Visit www.gaysocialnj.org for more information.
GET YOUR TICKET HERE - REQUIRED TO ATTEND
Take a moment to unwind with Gay Social at Bossa Massages and Wellness for a special evening designed to help you relax, recharge, and connect with community.
This unique social event blends wellness and conversation in a serene, welcoming space. Enjoy light bites and refreshments while exploring a curated selection of self-care experiences — from red light therapy to sauna sessions.
Choose the wellness experience that fits your vibe:
- Refresh $25 | 30 minutes each: Red Light, Sauna
- Rejuvenate $40 | Everything you get with Refresh + Scalp Massage
- Revitalize $75 | Everything you get with Rejuvenate + Express Facial
Available day-of first come first serve: $50 Cryo Facial and $50 Body Sculpt Session
🚗 Parking Info: Free parking is available on-site for an easy, stress-free arrival.
📞 Event Questions? Contact Bossa Massages & Wellness directly at 732-416-6120.
All Ticket Sales Final (but transferable). Please arrive on time.
2 attendees
Gay Social's 3RD Cup Saturday
Sugar Tree Cafe, 358 Passaic Avenue, Nutley, NJ, USThis event is organized by Gay Social, a 501(c)(3) nonprofit dedicated to fostering connections within our LGBTQ+ community through vibrant and inclusive social events. Join us to celebrate diversity, build friendships, and have some fun! Visit www.gaysocialnj.org for more information.
3rd Cup Saturday is an afternoon coffee meetup with the LGBTQ community. It is friendly, unhurried, and easy to join. People come to catch up, meet someone new, or just spend a bit of time together without a packed schedule.
Billy, our Community Manager, is there to welcome newcomers and help connect people naturally.
Event details
☕ Every other month, third Saturday
⏰ 2:00 PM to 4:00 PM
📍 Sugar Tree Cafe, Nutley
🎟️ Free to attend / No RSVP needed
🅿️ Free street and lot parking
ℹ️ Food and drinks on your own2 attendees
Gay Social's Coffee Social
High Bridge Commons Park, 79 Main Street, High Bridge, NJ, USThis event is organized by Gay Social, a 501(c)(3) nonprofit dedicated to fostering connections within our LGBTQ+ community through vibrant and inclusive social events. Join us to celebrate diversity, build friendships, and have some fun! Visit www.gaysocialnj.org for more information.
Coffee Social is a monthly LGBTQ community gathering in High Bridge where LGBTQ people come together for relaxed conversation and connection. Some folks stop by for a quick hello, others stay the whole time, and both are welcome. It is an easy way to meet new people and spend part of your weekend with the community.
THIS IS A SPECIAL EDITION THAT WILL TAKE PLACE AT THE COMMONS PARK UP THE ROAD.
Grab a coffee, bring a blanket, bring games, bring some snacks! Come enjoy some nice spring weather!Check in with our Community Manager, Phil Carroll , who is there to welcome newcomers, help make introductions, and make sure everyone feels comfortable settling in, especially if it is your first time joining us.
Event details
☕ Moved to the Third Sunday in May for Mother's Day
⏰ 11:00 AM to 1:00 PM
📍 Meet us at the Commons Park in High Bridge NJ
🎟️ Free to attend / No RSVP needed
🅿️ Free street parking and nearby NJ Transit lot
ℹ️ Food and drinks on your own8 attendees
Gay Social's Spotlight Social
The 244 Spot, 244 Cedar Street,, South Amboy, NJ, USThis event is organized by Gay Social, a 501(c)(3) nonprofit dedicated to fostering connections within our LGBTQ+ community through vibrant and inclusive social events. Join us to celebrate diversity, build friendships, and have some fun! Visit www.gaysocialnj.org for more information.
Spotlight Social is a recurring LGBTQ community nightlife gathering in South Amboy with a high-energy local-bar feel. The night blends DJ'd music, dancing, and socializing, making it easy to connect with both familiar and new faces throughout the evening.
Event details
🎶 Every other month, last Friday
⏰ 8:00 PM to 12:00 AM
📍 The 244 Spot, South Amboy
🎟️ No cover / No RSVP Required
🅿️ Free street parking
ℹ️ Cash and cards accepted4 attendees
Past events
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