Radiant Women's Collective

📍 Location:
BJ’s Restaurant & Brewhouse – Tacoma Mall
4502 S Steele St, Tacoma, WA 98409

🕓 Time:
4:00 PM – 5:30 PM
(Our women’s discussion group starts at 6:00 PM nearby – join us early to connect!)

🎉 Description:
This women-only happy hour is a great way to relax, meet new people, and enjoy some good conversation before our discussion group. Whether you're a regular or joining for the first time, you're welcome!

👉 Please note: Everyone will be responsible for their own food and drinks, and the restaurant will provide separate checks. This is a casual gathering, and the host will not be covering costs.

We’ll wrap up around 5:30 PM and head over to our discussion group:
📚 Women’s Discussion Group (6:00 PM):
Tacoma Public Library – Moore Branch
215 S 56th St, Tacoma, WA 98408
Looking forward to sharing great conversations and laughter with you!

✨ For women seeking community, inspiration, and good conversation.

Welcome to this week’s women’s circle! Tonight, we’ll focus on connection and self-discovery. We’ll begin with a fun icebreaker to set the tone and get to know one another better. From there, we’ll explore the evening’s topic, 'The Art of Forgiveness,' through open discussion, sharing our thoughts, and reflecting on personal experiences. This gathering is a space to connect, grow, and be inspired by one another’s journeys. We’ll close with a moment to set intentions, leaving with fresh perspectives and a sense of support. Let’s dive in and make this time meaningful together!

Below is the "Mindful Musing" for the week which includes our Main Topic and some questions for us to explore together!

Forgiveness—sometimes it feels like the highest road to take, and other times it feels like the longest, bumpiest one. It’s one of those concepts that sounds great in theory, like “I forgive you, and now I’m free,” but the reality? It can be more like, “I forgive you… I think? Maybe? Kind of… nope, not yet!” Whether we’re trying to let go of something a friend did years ago, a family conflict that seems like a rite of passage, or our own tendency to hold onto regrets, forgiveness is rarely a one-size-fits-all experience.

And then there’s the inner dialogue: Why should I forgive? What if they don’t even realize they hurt me? Am I just supposed to “move on” without getting an apology? The struggle is real. Forgiveness doesn’t necessarily mean forgetting or condoning someone’s behavior, yet there’s a fine line between forgiving and excusing. Sometimes, forgiveness feels like a gift we give ourselves; other times, it feels like an unpaid invoice with no due date.

Let’s dive into this complicated, sometimes humorous process of forgiveness. How do we know when we’re ready to forgive? What does forgiveness actually mean, especially when an apology isn’t involved? And maybe most importantly, how do we find the balance between forgiveness and protecting ourselves from being hurt again?

Discussion Questions:

1. What’s one situation where you found forgiveness surprisingly easy? What made it different?
2. Do you think it’s possible to forgive someone without an apology? If so, what helps you do that?
3. Have you ever forgiven someone “in your head” but still felt hurt around them? How did you handle it?
4. What do you think is the difference between forgiving and excusing someone’s actions?
5. Is there a situation you find impossible to forgive? What about it makes it so challenging?
6. Do you believe in the idea that forgiveness is more for us than for the other person? Why or why not?
7. How do you forgive yourself when you’ve made a mistake? Is it harder or easier than forgiving others?
8. Do you think forgiveness comes with conditions, or is it an “all-or-nothing” deal?
9. What role does time play in your ability to forgive? Do you find some things easier to forgive as years go by?
10. Is there someone you’d like to forgive but just can’t seem to? What would it take to make forgiveness possible?