What we’re about
Remake The Rules is a space for thoughtful people navigating modern decision-making in a world full of noise, tools, systems, and overwhelm. Led by Emily Pabst, ChoiceTech Consultant and Coach, these gatherings explore how we make decisions—big and small—when we’re inundated with input, options, and outdated advice.
This space is for slowing down, thinking clearly, and exploring new ways forward.
If you're:
-Tired of burnout cycles and app fatigue
-Stuck between too many options and not enough movement
-Doing everything "right" but still feeling off
-Curious about decision-making, tech design, or systemic pressure
…you’ll feel at home here.
We cover topics like choicetech, decision fatigue, app dysfunction, information overwhelm, choice overload, hybrid human-tech systems, choice inflation, and more—through real talk and simple frameworks that meet you where you are.
Learn more at remaketherules.com.
Upcoming events (3)
See all- Quiz and Connect: Commiserating for Online DatersTown Hall Collaborative, Denver, CO
Crosspost with No Pressure Singles Social.
Online dating is full of options—but are those options helping you find connection, or just adding to the overwhelm?
This low-key night is for people who want to laugh, vent (lightly), and swap stories about modern dating while also getting curious about why it feels so weird sometimes. (Hint: it’s not just you—it’s the systems we’re all swimming in.)
Ahead of the meetup, you’re invited to take a short quiz: “Are Your Swiping Habits Wrecking Your Chances at Love?” It’s a fun way to see your dating quirks in action. Take it before we meet, or just show up ready to roll your eyes at the apps with good company.
What we’ll do:
– Compare quiz results (no pressure if you skipped it)
– Share dating app horror stories, small wins, and “wait…same!” moments
– Laugh at the mess while learning a little about how tech design sneaks into our love lives
– Hang out with curious, thoughtful people who want real conversation (not just complaints)What this isn’t:
A space for disrespectful bashing. We’re here to poke fun, reflect, and connect—while keeping it lighthearted and respectful.Who should come?
– People actively swiping (or thinking about re-downloading the apps)
– Anyone who feels stuck, tired, or slightly unhinged by dating
– Folks who want better conversations—and maybe better stories—for modern loveHosted by Emily Pabst, founder of Remake The Rules—so bring your questions, your curiosity, and your dating app screenshots (kidding... kind of).
- Let's Talk: AstrologyBarFly at the Alamo, Denver, CO
Astrology is a meaning-making tool with deep cultural roots. And in a world where decision-making often feels rushed, data-driven, or disembodied, it makes sense that people turn to something more symbolic, personal, and story-driven.
This casual meetup, hosted by Remake The Rules, is a space to explore why astrology resonates (or doesn’t), how people use it to navigate uncertainty, and what it tells us about our deeper desires for connection, self-understanding, and control in a chaotic world.
No readings. No eye rolling. Just a thoughtful conversation about the role astrology plays in how we orient ourselves in modern life—and what it means to seek meaning in a system that rarely makes space for nuance or mystery.
Possible prompts:
– What do you turn to when life feels overwhelming?
– Has astrology ever helped—or hindered—a decision?
– What need do you think astrology meets in people?
– Does a tool have to be true to be useful?
– When does astrology feel empowering vs. limiting?Curious why astrology still resonates in an age of algorithms, burnout, and decision fatigue?
Ahead of our upcoming conversation, you're invite you to read this short piece from Remake The Rules: Finding Yourself in the Stars: Astrology, Decision Fatigue, and the Search for Meaning in the Information Age.
It explores how symbolic systems like astrology offer relief, reflection, and ritual in a world that often demands speed, certainty, and optimization.
Read it before the meetup—or just come with curiosity.
