About us
You've done the work. Now come be with others who have too.
I created The Human Collective as my play space — a place to pour my love into the world by sharing what's most alive for me. The people who find their way here tend to already be doing the work, already living with intention, and hungry for community that can actually meet them there. If that's you, you're in the right place.
People leave with things they can actually use — a deeper understanding of their own nervous system, tools they can bring into their relationships and conversations, and new lenses for making sense of patterns they've carried for years.
✨ What we explore
I oscillate between two territories that I find endlessly rich:
Nervous system awareness — understanding how your body responds, regulates, and relates. Learning to recognize your patterns and meet yourself with steadiness and compassion.
Family Constellations & ancestral healing — a systemic lens for understanding the invisible forces that shape how we love, work, relate, and belong. Exploring what we carry from our family systems — and what's ready to be put down.
Once a month I host a free online workshop where I teach and facilitate whatever is most alive for me in that moment. Some months lean educational, some experiential, some a blend of both. Some are nervous system focused. Some are Family Constellations editions — love, money, work, family. All are crafted with intention and care.
✨ How we gather
Monthly workshop with Ashanti — a free online gathering once a month. A space to learn, integrate, and be in real conversation with peers on a similar path.
Wake Up With Mike — a free weekly Tuesday morning Zoom at 8am ET, hosted by my collaborator Mike. A simple, grounding space to begin the day in presence and connection. Drop in weekly or whenever you feel the pull.
✨ Who belongs here
You'll feel at home if you:
- have done meaningful inner work and want peers who can meet you there
- are curious about Family Constellations, ancestral patterns, or systemic healing
- value nervous system literacy as a foundation for how you live and relate
- want real community — not networking, not small talk, not performance
- see yourself as a sovereign being and extend that same respect to others
✨ Our ethos
Sovereignty. Self-responsibility. We don't fix each other here — we witness, learn, and grow alongside each other. Everyone who enters this space is trusted as the expert on their own experience.
Consider this your standing invitation.
Pull up a chair, get comfortable, and stay as long as feels right.
Upcoming events
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The Current State of Men + Women: Why Relating Feels So Hard
·OnlineOnlineIt has been said by various elders of different intact traditions that the last world ended because men and women forgot that they needed one another…
And when I look at the current state of men and women in the world today, it’s impossible to ignore the reality that we have, yet again, forgotten how to see and value one another clearly.
And, yet, beneath all of this, men and women share the exact same core fears:
The fear of repeating the same intergenerational patterns that we inherited from our respective bloodlines
AND
The fear of passing those fractured experiences on to the next generation.
And, at our cores, men and women share the exact same desires:
To evolve human consciousness byway of loving union.
To end cycles of violence, abuse, manipulation, coercion, betrayal, dishonesty, and suffering.
To come back together—as we know, deep in our bones, that we are stronger when we are united. This is what we have been trying so desperately to do.
And, in truth, this is what we HAVE TO DO if we want to move away from a culture that desensitizes us to the sacredness of life—and toward one that honors it.
For our partnerships, our families, and our communities…this is the work of the NOW TIMES:
REMEMBERING how to need one another, see one another, respect one another, and exalt one another, once more.
If you, too, feel this collective call of relational remembrance, I invite you to join me for a FREE upcoming co-ed class:
The Current State of Men + Women:
Why Relating Feels So Hard
Wednesday, May 20 // 6:30 - 8pm MST on ZoomOpen to men and women who want to tend to their unions—romantic, platonic, and beyond.
👉 📍 🚨 **REGISTER HERE!!!!! **📍 🚨 👈
What we’ll explore:
- Why so many men and women feel disconnected, mistrusting, and misaligned with one another
- How deeper biological, emotional, and cultural wounds between the masculine and feminine shape the way we relate
- What it could look like to begin healing these patterns—within ourselves and between each other
What you’ll walk away with:
- Historical and cultural understanding as to how men and women got into the relational state that we’re currently in
- The insidious tools of distortion and disconnection that pull us apart from one another
- A clear understanding of how to move forward with reverence and respect in our unions—romantic, platonic, and beyond
Who this class is for:
- Single men and women who want to heal their relationship with the opposite sex and consciously co-create a future partnership
- Partnered or married couples who want to better understand and support one another’s biological and psycho-spiritual gifts
- Parents (or future parents) who want to support the emotional, relational, and reproductive health of their children
- Anyone devoted to the restoration of intact families and thriving community systems
Important details:
- PLEASE REGISTER FOR THE FREE CO-ED CLASS VIA MY WEBSITE TO RECEIVE EMAIL REMINDS AND THE ZOOM LINK:
👉 📍 🚨 **REGISTER HERE!!!!! **📍 🚨 👈
- This is a LIVE class, however, a class replay will be sent out to all those who register VIA MY WEBSITE. If you do not register through my website you will not receive the replay.
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