Coffee Mornings London

From Walks by Water - walking, hiking London

Time is precious. Here we value non-boring valuable chats and interactions that are fully engaging, soulfully enriching, inspiring, and leave you a bit wiser than when you arrived. In that spirit, today’s hosted laid back social coffee chat will offer a perfect haven for the inquisitive & curious to share views on the following intriguing observation. Growing up in the west - before the 2020s - Friday and Saturday nights meant going out with your mates for highly sociable enjoyable fun things like music, dancing/clubbing, drinking, eating, comedy, singing, being silly random conversations and banter with strangers you'd meet out and about 100% organically. Taking drugs even. Tuesdays and Thursdays was about doing the same stuff but with work collegues hence the workplace was a place to make new lifelong friends. Weekend daytimes were for doing healthier but socially fun stuff like playing sports, pub lunches, visting galleries/museums, theatre and watching movies together at the Cinema or around a mate's house. Fast‑forward 2026 - it feels like everything changed: Despite public transport running all night (it wasn't when I was in my teens/early 20s yet my peer group stayed out proper late most weekends) - on a Sat night "young" people head home at 10.30pm, skip the dance floor for board games, avoid bar banter, jokes and rarely engage in organic spontaneous chats with strangers. Whatsmore the stats are wild — data show virginity rates among men hitting record highs by age 30, social anxiety and social skills off-the charts. So what's happened? We’ll explore questions like: * Is this just nostalgia talking, or has something genuinely shifted? * Why has typical multi generational fun pastimes (1950s to 2010s) lost its spark for the 20‑somethings? * How much does health, economics, mobile phones, social media and gaming explain the trend? * Are certain professions (like tech/IT) changing the social landscape, or just attracting already‑very introverted people? * Why are some stats so **contradictory**? Think higher reported male virginity rates by 30 alongside rising STI rates in young people. Despite tanking alcohol sales - UK alcohol related death rates per capita are still rising. What's going on? * Target audience demographics for mainstrream commericial pop music radio stations (Capital, Kiss etc) is still 18 to 24 suggesting young people still consume music and other popular culture but are not going out to enjoy it. Why? * Is it harder for younger people to make genuine friends today and if so why? * Dancing is natural to all of us - every kid moves instinctively to music. So beyond a less joyous social life what happens when these innate behaviours get suppressed as adults? What has this healthy exercise and creative expression been replaced with? * AI is predicted to take over technical job and tasks - the most future‑proof skills will be things like interpersonal skills & emotional intelligence built through real‑world socialising. Employers already complain that young people lack these skills. How will they get non-AI jobs? * Levels of emotional intelligence and self-awareness - particularly amongst men - are at an all time low. Wiill social anxiety worsen further as the introversion trend accelerates? * What does all this mean for dating, relationships, and starting families? Expect lively debate, sharp humour, and a host (a former news journalist) that isn’t afraid to ask awkward questions. Bring your curiosity, your stories, and your caffeine tolerance — we’ll stir the coffee pot on whether the young have really become more boring or have they’re just discovered new fun activities - if so what are they? And if you are in your 20s - I would love to hear your views! Oh BTW - Lucy Pearson - the blondie whose friends have become boring - she's a British journalist Lucas - The alcoholic 3am Eternal singing break-dancing geriatrics

11 attendees

Coffee Table Games ☕️🎲♟🃏🧶🪡🎨

Sat, Aug 15, 11:00 AM

From London Socials

4.5

Hello Everyone, **Please bring along any board or card games that can easily be played in a café, as I won’t be able to provide games myself.** Join us for a relaxed and welcoming afternoon of table games, coffee, and good company with like-minded people. This event will run alongside my **Crafternoon Tea gathering**, so feel free to also bring along any crafts, reading, colouring, journaling, or other creative projects you’re working on and of course Games I look forward to meeting you. Dee :)

21 attendees

Westgate on Sea to Broadstairs

Sat, Sep 5, 8:00 AM

4.7

A most wonderful 8.5 to 9 mile Kent coastal walk that takes in Botany Bay finishing in delightful Broadstairs. There shall be time to have a swim at Broadstairs. Meet at 9am to buy group return train tickets for the train at 9.40am that arrives at Westgate on Sea at 11.19am. Ticket : return to Broadstairs Or you may decide to drive. Walk starts at around 11.30am. We shall have lunch in Margate. Likely train back from Broadstairs at 4pm but you may wish to take a later train back. Please bring packed lunch, water, snacks etc plus waterproof jacket, walking shoes or trainers and suncream, sunhat and sunglasses. Meetup fee £8 in cash on the day or £6 by Saturday in advance, details supplied upon request. You should be able to walk 2.5 miles per hour and have adequate and appropriate insurance for this type of activity. Please only post photos of others with their consent. My no 07714250849.

31 attendees

Kemsing Circular

Tue, Aug 4, 9:15 AM

From Weekday Walks - walking, hiking London

From Cocktails & Conversation - Single Events With Heart

A beautiful 9 to 10 mile walk in the delightful Kent hilly countryside and woodlands ! Please arrive by 10.20am to facilitate the purchase of group train tickets for the train at 10.55am that arrives at Kemsing at 11.37am. Train ticket : return to Kemsing Or you may decide to drive. The walk shall commence by 11.45am. We shall have a drink towards the end of the walk. You should be able to walk 2.5 miles per hour and have adequate and appropriate insurance for this type of activity. Meetup fee £5 payable in cash or by bank transfer in advance. Please bring packed lunch, water, snacks etc plus waterproof jacket and walking shoes/boots or trainers. Train back from Kemsing at 4.49pm. Please only post photos of others with their consent. My no 07714250849.

24 attendees

THE ART OF ATTRACTION: A Singles Gallery Experience at the V&A

Sat, Aug 8, 10:00 AM

From Walks by Water - walking, hiking London

## ***🚨 Important: Meetup RSVP is not a valid ticket. All attendees must purchase a ticket via our [TICKET LINK!](https://fatso.ma/f2b2j)*** **Looking for a more meaningful way to meet new people?** Join us for a unique singles experience where art becomes the conversation starter and connections are discovered through shared perspectives, engaging discussions, and mutual attraction. **Welcome & Registration** We begin at the V&A Café with coffee, introductions, and registration on the C&C app. This relaxed start gives everyone the opportunity to settle in, meet fellow participants, and prepare for the experience ahead. Guests will then be divided into small groups of 5–6 people and set off to explore the museum. **The Gallery Challenge** As you explore the V&A, your mission is to find and photograph an artwork or object that represents: ❤️ **Love** ✨ **Your Ideal Life** 🎭 **Your Personality** The challenge encourages meaningful conversations and offers a unique insight into how others see themselves, their aspirations, and what matters most to them. Every 20 minutes, groups will rotate, giving you the opportunity to meet and connect with different people throughout the experience. **Coffee, Conversations & Connections** After the gallery challenge, we'll return to the V&A Café. Each participant will select one favourite photo from the challenge and have up to one minute to explain why they chose it and how it relates to the chosen category. We'll also discover whether anyone selected the same artwork for the same challenge category, creating fun and unexpected connections. These short presentations often reveal far more than a traditional introduction ever could and provide excellent conversation starters for the rest of the event. **The Match Experience** After getting to know one another through the gallery challenge and discussions, guests can privately indicate through the C&C app who they would like to see again. If two people select each other, it's a match. Mutual matches will be revealed instantly through the app as soon as both parties have selected one another. **No awkward speed dating.** **No forced pairings.** **No pressure.** **Just genuine conversations and meaningful connections.** **Schedule** **11:00 AM** – Meet at the V&A Café **11:15 AM** – Welcome, Coffee & App Registration **11:30 AM** – Gallery Challenge Begins **11:50 AM** – First Group Rotation **12:10 PM** – Second Group Rotation **12:30 PM** – Return to Café **12:40 PM** – Favourite Photo Presentations **1:10 PM** – C&C Matching Opens **1:20 PM** – Coffee, Conversations & New Connections **2:00 PM** – Event Ends **Who knows? Your next great connection may be hidden behind a masterpiece.** **Register here:** https://fatso.ma/f2jgf

33 attendees

Dover to Deal

Sat, Sep 19, 8:15 AM

4.7

A most stunning & beautiful 10 mile coastal walk by the iconic White Cliffs of Dover ! Let's go with the flow ! Please only rsvp if you can walk 2.5 miles per hour and you should have adequate and appropriate insurance for this type of activity. Please arrive by 9.20am to facilitate the purchase of group train tickets to Deal. Train ticket : High speed return to Deal. We shall take the highspeed train at 10.04am that arrives at Dover at 11.13am. Walk will commence by 11.30am. Meetup fee £8 payable in cash or £6 by Friday in advance by bank transfer, details supplied upon request. No PayPal. Please bring packed lunch, water, snacks etc as well as waterproof jacket and walking shoes/trainers or boots. If sunny: sunhat, suncream and sunglasses. We shall have lunch by a pub in wonderful St Margaret's Bay. We shall a drink at the end of the walk in the lovely square that houses the Kings Head pub at Deal. We shall take the direct train back at 5.28pm. Please only post photos of others with their consent. My no is 07714250849.

18 attendees

Chilworth Circular

Tue, Sep 8, 9:00 AM

From Weekday Walks - walking, hiking London

From Cocktails & Conversation - Single Events With Heart

Let's go with the flow and do this amazing 9 to 10 mile walk in the country lanes in the stunning hilly Surrey countryside! Meetup fee £5 payable on the day or by bank transfer - details supplied by private message. Things to bring : packed lunch, water, snacks etc and waterproof jacket and walking shoes/boots/trainers. We shall buy group train tickets at 10.05am for the 10.30am ( or 10.45am) train that arrives at Chilworth at 11.45am after changing at Guildford. Train ticket: Return to Chilworth ( via Guildford) Or you may decide to drive. You should have adequate and appropriate insurance for this type of activity and be able to walk 2.5 miles per hour. We shall stop at a pub at the end of the walk. Train back at 5.35pm from Chilworth that arrives in London at around 6.45pm after changing at Guildford. Please only post photos of others with their consent. My no is 07714250849.

5 attendees

Design, Gardens & Connections for Singles

Sat, Sep 19, 10:00 AM

From Book Swap Brunch 20-30s

## ***🚨 Important: Meetup RSVP is not a valid ticket. All attendees must purchase a ticket via our [TICKET LINK](https://fatso.ma/fwp6r)[!](https://fatso.ma/f2b2j)*** ## Design, Gardens & Connections for Singles Looking for a more meaningful way to meet other singles? Join us for a relaxed social experience where design, culture and nature create the perfect setting for genuine conversations and new connections. We'll begin at the Design Museum with a short welcome and introductions before dividing into small groups for two fun and interactive challenges. ## Challenge 1: Childhood Memories Each group will explore the museum, with everyone choosing one object or design that reminds them of childhood or a special memory. Sharing the stories behind your choices helps break the ice and sparks meaningful conversations within your group. Each group will then select one favourite object to share with everyone later. ## Challenge 2: The Hidden Object The host will show each group a photograph of a hidden object somewhere in the museum. Working together, your challenge is to find it and recreate the same photograph. It's a fun way to explore the museum, notice the details and enjoy discovering the exhibits together. ## Holland Park Social Walk After the museum experience, we'll enjoy a relaxed walk through Holland Park, exploring: • Holland House Ruins • Dutch Garden • Kyoto Garden • Rose Garden & Orangery • Woodland paths • Peaceful ponds and hidden corners Along the way there will be plenty of opportunities to chat, meet different people and enjoy the beautiful surroundings. ## Garden Café Stop We'll finish with a stop at one of the beautiful cafés within Holland Park, where you're welcome to stay for a coffee, drink or light lunch while continuing the conversations. If you'd like to extend the experience, you're also welcome to join us for an optional visit to Japan House London to explore contemporary Japanese art, design and culture. ## Schedule * 11:00 AM – Welcome & introductions at the Design Museum * 11:15 AM – Small-group museum challenges * 12:30 PM – Holland Park social walk * 2:00 PM – Garden café stop * Optional – Visit to Japan House London ## Event Information Walking distance: Approximately 2.5–3 km (1.5–2 miles) Duration: Around 3 hours (plus optional Japan House visit) Walking level: Easy – suitable for most fitness levels with a relaxed pace. ## What to Expect * Welcome and introductions * Small-group museum challenges * Natural conversation starters * Relaxed social walk * Beautiful gardens and hidden gems * Garden café stop * Optional visit to Japan House London Perfect for singles who enjoy culture, meaningful conversations and meeting like-minded people in a relaxed, pressure-free environment. ## 📍 Meeting Point & Schedule We'll gather **from 11:00 AM outside the main entrance of the Design Museum**. Your host will be there to welcome everyone, and we'll spend a little time getting to know each other before heading inside. Before the event, all attendees will be invited to join a **private WhatsApp group**, making it easy to receive any event updates, find the meeting point, and stay connected with the group before and after the experience. ### Location Design Museum, W8 6AG **Register here:** [https://fatso.ma/f2jgf](https://fatso.ma/fwp6r) **Register here:** [https://fatso.ma/f2jgf](https://fatso.ma/fwp2l)

29 attendees

Book Swap Meetup 📚📚📚

Sat, Aug 29, 11:00 AM

From Weekday Walks - walking, hiking London

Basic Ideas: 🌞 📚☕ Any books sitting there collecting dust? Some holiday gifts? Or it’s a book that has changed your life that you want to share? Feel free to bring book(s) to discuss or swap, we usually have more books than people in the end, so feel free to pop along just to have a chat as well. Aiming for every 4 weeks book swap meetup. Note: The event is free to attend, so the only cost for you will only be buying a drink at the location, so coffee/tea/beer etc.

13 attendees

Balcombe Circular

Thu, Sep 24, 9:00 AM

From The London Cultureseekers Group

A truly beautiful 9 mile walk that takes in stunning Ardingly Reservoir and the delightful Sussex countryside! We shall buy group return train tickets at 10.05am for the train at 10.35am that arrives at Balcombe at 11.16am. Train ticket : Return to Balcombe Or you may decide to drive. Walk starts at 11.20am. Please bring packed lunch, water, snacks etc, waterproof jacket and walking shoes or trainers. You should have adequate insurance for this type of activity and be able to walk 2.5 miles per hour. We shall take the train back to London from Balcombe at 4.25pm. We shall have coffee or a drink towards the end of the walk. Meetup fee £5 payable in cash or by bank transfer in advance. Please only post photos of others with their consent. My no 07714250849.

6 attendees

Cultureseekers Midweek Coffee Evening - Foyles Bookshop Cafe, Charing Cross Rd

Wed, Aug 12, 5:30 PM

On Wednesday 12th July at 6:30pm, we will be having a Midweek Coffee Evening! It's a chance to meet and chat with others in the group in a relaxed setting over a hot drink. On the day, come up to the cafe on the 5th floor, grab a drink and come and join us. The cafe closes at 8:00pm and the bookshop closes at 9:00pm. Hope to see you there! Robert 07905 901 834 (prefer text) or email: [general@cultureseekers.org](general@cultureseekers.org) ***On the day, if you can’t make the trip, just change your RSVP to No or text me to say you can’t make it.*** ***Please don’t post any messages in the comments that you can’t make it, as this generates spam for everyone else.*** ***Please make sure you are aware of the group rules here before RSVPing - [https://www.meetup.com/london_cultureseekers/photos/22974682/523578875/Group_Rules/](https://www.meetup.com/london_cultureseekers/photos/22974682/523578875/Group_Rules/)***

5 attendees

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